"I hear you Lee! We have very similar circumstances. We nearly went bankrupt trying to protect the children’s rights to see their father. We won very standard rights – every second weekend and Thursday nights every second week. His ex broke every court order going. We couldn’t do anything about it. His ex should be a politician. She was able to duck and dodge absolutely everything. Started going to church and insisting the children had to go as well and therefore break into the weekends with their father. Behind the scenes she was having an affair with a married man, on RSVP and Adult Matchmaker. The last straw for us was when we found his daughter (10 years old) text messaging the married man. Him sending her messages – that ‘we are special friends’. We found out that the ex had put the number into her phone and encouraged her to text message him. We complained to DOCs, the school, anyone who would listen. We never even got a response from anyone. The girls now complain how much they hate their father. The relationship is totally shot to pieces. If you ask the girls though they will bring up a million and one other reasons for why they don’t like their dad – ‘he’s nasty’, ‘he didn’t give me what I wanted’ etc.
In court his ex would burst into tears and say, ‘I only want to be friends’. Out of court she called us every name under the sun, told us how much she hated us etc. She would leave abusive messages on my phone – I was a slut, should go and have my own children etc. She was completely irrational if you tried to have a conversation with her."
It was alright for you Cathryn to have it off with her ex husband but the ex wife isn't allowed a relationship. You complained to Docs about a child ringing her mothers friend and yet you expect the same child to come and stay with you because you are different how? You are a pig!